I'm 5'10" (178cm?) and have the large chain stays since I bought my V20 from a tall guy. I can't say I am more or less wobbly than other V20 riders since there are almost zero V20 riders near me. My non-cycling friends probably think I am a bit wobbly. Well, not "probably" but I haven't run into anyone or ridden off the bike path so that has to count for something right? FYI, the bike path is at least as wide as a 2-car road.
Okay, I am going to go test out my new head rest experiment to see if it my lowered and tilted head in this new, more reclined position helps my CdA while keeping the bugs out of my eyes.