From the build reports, the
From the build reports, the PU 4 donut spring is a TIGHT fit when installed with the larger donut diameter into the frame sleeve, which is the correct way.
If the OD of the donut in your photo that is just covered, is 2 mm greater than the ID of the THREADED sleeve, then I THINK that that donut will not move when the suspension moves, so only 1 of the three valleys work as a spring, and your spring rate is three times higher than the minimum spring rate!!???????
Try screwing the PU spring so that donut is 2 mm outside the sleeve, remove the seat back, and suddenly apply all of your weight to the rear of the frame, while someone watches the movement of the donut to see if it goes into the sleeve. Adjust the spring position until it stays out.
If the suspension is still too stiff, then remove the PU spring and carefully file down the 3rd donut so the interference of the donut OD and the sleeve threaded ID is 1/2 of the existing interference, AND/OR add lots of rubber grease to this donut.
Do NOT over file the donut as the PU spring shape is very unstable, but has a large deflection for a short spring length, due to the deep valleys, and needs the sleeve to stop it buckling.
BEFORE you do any filing to the PU spring, get a spare one, just in case.
If you are running 23 mm wide tyres, try going to 28 mm wide tyres as for me in Australia, with our ROUGH chip sealed roads, going to 28 mm Schwalbe Ultremo ZX tyres improved the comfort, and especially cornering grip and confidence dramatically.
I will send a recommended tyre pressure for load on another post, as this can also effect comfort and grip.
Super Slim