I just could not bring myself to drill a big hole in the chain stay end near the forks. So I came up with a new plan, cutting and splicing a cable (yes, that is supposed to be a n0 - n0) so that I can use a smaller hole. I did not have any problems putting a larger hole at the crank end of the chain stay. First, I enlarged the existing hole slightly, than cut the end off of a cable. Then put a short length of heat shrink tubing on the cut end to do a test fit. Next, stripped the cable insulation back far enough to remove the test heat shrink. The heat shrink is in lieu of a grommet. Then slipped a piece of heat shrink all the way to the end of the cable (the end with the connector for the RD). Then fished the cable through from the small hole near the fork end of the chain stay. That was easy, took less than a minute, no tool needed. Next, made the splice. Then stuffed the extra cable (including the splice) into the chain stay (from the crank end). The cable would not accordion fold. So I made a loop, then stuffed the head of the loop into the hole. This made two loops, one in the chain stay, and one sticking out. Now the cable back fed easily into the chain stay. When the splice was near the hole, the exterior loop was pushed in, then the splice, then continued back feeding until the proper length remained. The next task was to mount the RD, and pull out enough cable through the small hole to be able to make the connection. Then I marked the location where the cable came out of the hole, pulled more cable out, centered the pre-positioned heat shrink over the mark, and hit it with the heat gun. Next, placed a little liquid soap around the hole, and stuffed the heat shrink wrapped cable into the hole. That was tough. Finishing up consisted of putting a grommet on the cable exiting the crank end of the chain stay and a system test. Done!
Was it worth all the effort? Probably not - it just makes me feel better not having a "monster" hole in the chain stay.