Thanks jphips, I did the search, and did not find the one I need. There is one similar from a bike shop in England, but it's for a 1 inch steering tube.
However, I did take mine apart again this morning, took the measurements, and found that it would need an EC34/28.6 for the top, and an EC34/30 for the bottom, so I ordered a Cane Creek 40 EC34/28.6 EC34/30 Headset and the Problem Solvers Micro ADJ Headset Spacer that Robert recommended.
I'll see how this goes!