What I'm experiencing is not a resonant sort of wobble but rather a high speed instability where a slight bump or crosswind will bounce me across the road and cause me to ruin a perfectly good pair of underwear. I seems like the front wheel gets lighter and twitchier as the speed increases.
It does not get lighter, obviously - it is trail self-centering force failing to keep up with increased speed and providing you with enough
control over the bars (like Jason said) given steering inertia of your particular Cruzbike configuration (longer legged riders get more) and your level of ability.
DF bikes (especially MTBs) are much more stable at speed because they have lots of trail, very low steering inertia AND you don't have to rely on steering alone to keep balance - you can use body English.
Heavier motobikes also don't accept too much body english, but they have tons of trail and tire grip - which translates into much more trail forces that help you control the bike at high speeds. Trail force, however, is based on tire friction and hence deducted from your speed (increases rolling resistance, which is pretty abysmal on motos). No idea how much quantitatively, though... likely not *much*.
All in all, it comes to your own strength and dexterity - VERY few bicycle designs are 'truly' unrideable, even RWS with negative trail. It just takes superhuman dexterity to ride one
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Still, '
conventional' MBB design does exclude a non-negligible part of populace if my own experience and feedback I've seen is of any indication. My first MBB (65 deg steering, 40mm trail, about 40cm steering axis-bb distance) was 'dangerously frisky' (leading to a few near pant-soiling experiences and a few outrights falls) even at 40 mph, but eliminating flop by 90 deg steering angle, increasing trail and reducing boom length allowed me hit 45 mph descents while pedalling furiously (160 RPM) and feeling totally in control.
Again, since you've already dealt with low-speed flop by a damper, why not experiment by increasing trail by installing, say, a 26" wheel with a narrow tire in the rear? On the plus side, it will make you a bit more aero as well
. Gripper, lower pressure front tire will help too (it was suggested many times in other threads as well). It will not help *much*, but might be just enough (especially combined with a damper) for you to feel in control.
It's like I tell people, it's like driving a Formula one car, the performance is there but at race speeds if you ham fist the controls you'll end up in a wall real fast.
Admittedly, steering inertia is a 100% liability that does not contribute ANYTHING useful to performance and should be minimised by any means possible.
Other means of adding control at high speed - dampers, more trail, more wheelbase - indeed have downsides when it comes to performance, but reducing inertia is 100% beneficial.